You want to move on and find the right kind of love.
But sometimes you question…
“Do I REALLY?”
Because letting go—whether it’s an ex or the version of you stuck in the same pattern that’s keeping you perpetually alone—also feels a little daunting.
Maybe you’re fresh off a breakup, telling yourself you “know” he’s wrong for you… but deep down you still want him back, and the thought of starting over with someone who’s emotionally available where the chemistry is off the charts feels not only impossible, but way too jarring for your nervous system.
OR…
Maybe you’ve been single for what feels like forever, wondering if love will ever truly happen for you—relating a little too hard to Katherine Heigl in 27 Dresses. You don’t love being alone, but there’s a strangely familiar comfort in that discomfort…
Either way, something’s not clicking.
No matter how much time has passed or how many dating strategies you’ve tried, you’re still stuck—overthinking, doubting yourself, and feeling drained, which leads you to repeat the same frustrating patterns.
Well I’ve got an offer that will reawaken your ability to tap into your desire and energize your approach to heal your heart and/or find love
Introducing my group coaching program,
Stop Wanting Him Back & Find Someone Better,
for over-achieving women who want to break free from everything that’s been holding them back once and for all—and finally find the love they deserve.
WHAT YOU GET
This 4-month group coaching experience brings together the tools, support, and resources outlined below to help you heal from heartbreak and move toward the love you deserve.
The Course
Access to my course containing 4 modules with nearly 70 videos, plus a bonus dating guide section.
Live Coaching
Two 90-minute live group coaching calls per week. Call times vary each week to accommodate for different time zones.
Call Archive
Access archived calls and re-watch your coaching.
THE COURSE
4 modules that include nearly 70 videos as well as printable worksheets to support you in your healing-heart/finding-love journey. Plus a BONUS Dating section!
1. What You Need to Succeed
Before you can fully heal from heartbreak, you need the right tools to set you up for success. The 11 videos in this module are designed to help you approach your healing & transformation journey in the Stop Wanting Him Back module AND the bonus Fall In Love With You module.
You’ll learn:
- How to get the most out of this experience—so you don’t just consume information but actually implement real, lasting change.
- The biggest mindset shifts you need to stop repeating old patterns and finally start making progress.
- Two main thought tools you'll use throughout the course to help you diffuse the excruciating stories you have about him, yourself, and the two of you as a couple, so you no longer ruminate over what more likely isn't true than is. For example, "He doesn't want me."
- How to emotionally prepare for this process—so when the inevitable resistance, self-doubt, or nostalgia creeps in, you’ll know exactly how to handle it.
Healing from heartbreak isn’t just about moving on from HIM--even though, yes that's why you're here! But this is also about reclaiming your power in not just your love-life but your WHOLE life. The What You Need To Succeed module makes sure you step into this heartbreak journey feeling clear, supported, and motivated to change everything for the better.
2. Stop Wanting Him Back
The 17 videos in this module will help you see all the ways you’ve been sabotaging your healing process - and exactly how to stop. You’ll learn how to kick Mr. Wrong to the curb once and for all, and finally feel free.
You’ll uncover:
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One of the crucial action steps you must take in order to untether from him, & how to manage your mind around it.
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How to untangle from the pain of believing he doesn't want you anymore.
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Permission to let yourself fall apart, when perhaps loved ones with the best of intentions told you to just "get over him," but it's not as easy as it sounds.
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How to let go of the fantasy and focus on the reality of what wasn't working.
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Emotional Freedom Technique aka EFT/Tapping. If you believe in the mind-body healing connection, but find meditation to be too difficult at this time, tapping just might be the perfect way to move and release the emotional pain in your body.
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How to catch yourself when you want to justify going back.
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Working through the belief that if he loved you enough, he'd have stayed.
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What to do with your desire for revenge. (no judgment if this is you!)
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How to manage the pressure to forgive, in order to set yourself free. (Hint-- it's not a requirement!)
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How to create closure.
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When he chooses a substance over you.
What I would have given to have had these videos at my fingertips—so I could watch them in the middle of the night when no one was around, or when even the most well-meaning loved ones just couldn’t give me what I needed. These videos will speak to you in a way that transforms your broken heart. If you truly commit to them and take action on what they guide you to do, I believe you’ll experience a profound shift within 30 days, like so many course students have reported!
3. Fall In Love With You
I tend to get a mixed bag with clients once we’re on the other side of their healing-heartbreak journey. Some are jonesin’ to find ‘The One’ ASAP, while others are unsure if they’re even ready to put themselves out there again
Regardless of which camp you’re in, this glow-up bonus is a MUST before ever considering putting yourself out there again.
Because falling in love with YOURSELF first is the foundation for finding the kind of love that lasts. This section has 19 videos and will help you rebuild confidence, trust yourself again, and discover a next level of comfort, being at home with just YOU.
- How to diffuse the belief that there must be something wrong with you, thanks to years of being alone or with awful partners who made you feel this way.
- Get over being single at WHATEVER age you are, because age really is just a number... yes, even in the dating world.
- Heal the stigma of being single. Screw what society says-- being single might just actually be your superpower!
- How to handle loneliness. This is an unavoidable feeling every human moves through, so why not learn how to navigate it?
- How to manage when he smells you moving on...because let's face it--they always do!
- Heal your relationship with money—unpack the beliefs that keep you stuck in scarcity, whether it’s in your finances or your relationships.
- Body confidence—heal the stories you tell yourself about your looks and desirability so you feel radiant from the inside out.
- Rewrite the belief that love isn’t in the cards for you— because it just ISN'T true.
If you choose to hang out in this Fall In Love With You phase and revel in it for a while, by all means, ENJOY. Just know that you will undoubtedly be clearer and more unapologetically confident about who you are and what you're looking for, should you decide to open your heart up again... And it's my deepest hope that you do, because the right kind of love is oh so available to you.
4. Find Someone Better
I designed this section to support you in calling in a deeply aligned, emotionally available partner without sacrificing who you are or settling for less than you deserve. If you’re ready to date with intention, discernment, and confidence, this part of the course guides you through the emotional and strategic shifts needed to attract the right person.
Rather than giving you generic dating tips, these 21 videos walk you through a powerful inner and outer transformation - helping you clear what’s blocking love while equipping you with tools to date smarter and more consciously.
You’ll explore:
- How to stop attracting emotionally unavailable men and call in a truly available partner.
- The deep fear of getting hurt again - and how to move through it gently but effectively.
- The woman you need to become to be a match for the love you want.
- How to create a dating app profile that’s authentic, confident, and magnetic (without looking desperate).
- Tools to tap into belief and possibility when it feels like he doesn’t exist.
- Dating app resistance: why it’s there, and how to navigate it without burnout.
- How your future self would approach dating - and how to access that version of you now.
- The biological clock fear: how to work with it instead of letting it lead.
- The art of evaluating dates, swiping intentionally, and pacing the connection as it deepens.
- Managing the vulnerability of liking someone new and discerning early red flags.
The Find Someone Better section will feel that much more inviting, doable, and FUN thanks to all the healing work you'll have done on both past relationships and the relationship with yourself, in the previous sections!
PLUS, a BONUS module.
BONUS: Dating Guide
This bonus section was born from witnessing my clients navigate the real-world dating landscape after doing the internal work in the Find Someone Better section. What I saw were smart, self-aware women still getting tripped up by the nuance of early-stage dating—not because they weren’t doing the work, but because the external process can feel confusing, vulnerable, and full of mixed signals.
So, I created this clear, grounded, and supportive guide to walk you through the external “how-to's” of modern dating - while balancing high standards with a strong dose of realism when it comes to recognizing that yes, you deserve to be treated like a queen but also don't know him well enough for the full red carpet to be fully rolled out just yet.
Inside, you’ll get:
- Clear etiquette + expectations for the moment you match (how to show up without over-functioning or shrinking).
- Step-by-step guidance for dates 1 and 2: what to expect, how to pace, and how to stay grounded in yourself.
- What shifts on date 3, and how to start tuning into emotional availability without jumping the gun.
- A breakdown of dates 4, 5, and 6: how to assess consistency, communication, and compatibility, while upleveling an appropriate amount of higher expectations.
- A full video on exclusivity: when and how to bring it up, what to look for before you do, and how to handle it with maturity, grace, and confidence.
This section was made to calm your nervous system, help you stay true to yourself, and give you the structure to move through early dating with clarity and self-empowerment—even when you really like him and it’s tempting to abandon yourself again.
Claire’s coaching provided me with two essential pieces that led to my Mr. Right. First, she gave me a clear dating process that stopped me from looking at what WASN’T working with men or the apps. Second, she held up the mirror to show me some ugly truths I didn’t want to see including all the crumbs I was settling for. It took a lot of consistency on my part and tough love on Claire’s part, to help me finally break my scarcity mindset with men. Now, I’ve met a man who is everything I want and more. Two years later and I’m madly in love and deeply proud of my own growth! I’ve loved loved loved working with Claire — it’s changed my life.
-Alicia
Live Group Coaching
Two 90-minute virtual coaching calls per week
WHAT LIVE COACHING LOOKS LIKE
Live coaching is about diving deep into what’s happening in your mind in the moment. Claire helps you cut through confusion, pain, and overwhelm to get to the root of what truly matters—whether you’re heartbroken or looking for love
Everyone’s journey is unique, yet deeply relatable—that’s the beauty of group coaching. You’ll receive direct guidance while also gaining powerful insights from observing others being coached. This gives you a deeper understanding of the process and helps uncover your own blind spots in a way that goes beyond self-coaching, leading you that much closer to being healed, whole, and madly in love
ANONYMOUS CONTAINER
Group coaching sessions take place in a Zoom webinar format, meaning only Claire and the person being coached are visible—everyone else remains unseen unless they are actively receiving coaching.
You’ll have the opportunity to raise your hand for coaching during each session, and for added anonymity, you can edit your name to a first name or pseudonym of your choice.
VARYING CALL TIMES
We meet twice a week, with call times evenly rotated among approximately 8 AM, 12 PM, and 3 PM PST to ensure fairness and accessibility. For example:
• Week 1: Calls at 8 AM & 12 PM
• Week 2: Calls at 12 PM & 3 PM
• Week 3: Calls at 8 AM & 3 PM
This pattern continues so that all time slots are evenly distributed. You’ll receive the coaching calendar mid-month for the following month, giving you at least two weeks’ notice to plan ahead for the following month. All calls are recorded. Calls are not mandatory to end live and you always have access to the recordings in the member portal.
Take a look at my live group coaching in action:
Earlier this year I got serious about finding love after many failed relationships. I decided to finally get out of my own way and listen to an expert with a proven track record. To say Claire’s course did the trick is an understatement. Within one month of diligently following her ‘find someone better’ process, I met an incredible guy, who I'm now married to, and I’m so thankful to have these tools to come back to when I need support on my personal journey.
Thank you, Claire, I couldn’t have done it without you!
-Jamie
FAQs
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I feel resistance to the group setting, despite the program offering everything I need!
What if I don’t heal my heart or find love at the end of the program?
In my life (of 68 years...), I have rarely found a coach/businessperson who coaches and offers feedback with such clarity, precision, and insight. That is what is so reassuring and makes me feel optimistic that I will finally find my guy!
I appreciate that Claire is willing to hear if her clients disagree and she doesn't put herself on a pedestal even though she is truly amazing and truly knows her stuff.
I was booted out of some coaching calls years ago (by a career intuitive coach) because I (diplomatically) questioned some of her black-and-white viewpoints. I just honestly wanted to understand something and I think most facets of life are nuanced, not black and white. That coach did not appreciate my questions. So, it's refreshing that Claire understands the nuances of life and relationships.
-Laura R
About Your Coach
Claire Conlan (Byrne), AKA, Claire the Heartbreak Coach, took what she learned from her tireless efforts to heal her most debilitating heartbreak & find the love of her life, and turned it into a simple process that has now helped hundreds of women stop wanting Mr. Wrong back and find someone better!
She was dubbed resident Heartbreak Coach for Kourtney Kardashian’s lifestyle site, POOSH, where she has written over 60 articles on heartbreak, dating and relationships. Other publications Claire has written for include Men’s Health, Brit + Co, & Medium. She was also featured in Ireland's national newspaper, The Irish Independent, and Cosmopolitan UK
Claire was a recurring guest on Bachelor Nation/DWTS winner, Kaitlyn Bristowe's Off The Vine podcast, and guested on Drybar Founder Alli Webb's Raising the Bar, The Liz Moody Podcast, Arielle Lorre's Well, and Bachelor Nation's Ashley Haibon's I Don't Get It. Additionally, Claire was interviewed by The View's Sara Haines on her IG live series.
Finally, you can check out Claire's own podcast, Stop Wanting Him Back & Find Someone Better, available on all major platforms.
Simply put, Claire taught me how to trust myself again. With grace and compassion, she walked with me through the deepest heartache and disappointment of my life, while holding a mirror to the parts of me that needed love (sometimes tough love!). Together we built a version of myself that I’d never seen before – one who knew what she wanted in life AND started to actually believe that she could get it.
I went from healing my heart in 2021, to living my brightest, fullest life in 2022, to falling in love with my person, my now fiancé, in 2023. It’s a story I never thought I’d get to write for myself, and I owe so much of it to Claire’s love and dedication as a coach, and the space she held for me to learn to trust myself. I am stronger, happier, and more fulfilled because of Claire’s work. She is a true gem.
-Anonymous
Before coaching with Claire, I had lots of self-doubt and negative thoughts about myself. I didn’t think I was attractive and believed I would never find my person.
Today, I feel like a different person: I love myself on a much deeper level & feel very secure in my ability to take care of my feelings. The negative self-talk that was a constant in my head is now replaced with loving thoughts…
I never thought I would get to this place
AND… I found my person
He is the best there is for me and I know it would have taken me decades, if ever, to find a person like him, if I hadn’t been in Claire’s program.
I am FOREVER thankful, and I would recommend ALL of the women who don't believe in themselves or their ability to find love, to join Stop Wanting Him Back & Find Someone Better!
-Caroline V., Sweden
