THE FIND-HIM FORMULA

ON DEMAND

WITH HEARTBREAK AND FINDING-LOVE COACH CLAIRE CONLAN (BYRNE)

What is it?

It’s not just another dating course. It’s a game-changer for women ready to stop settling, stop second-guessing, and start truly believing in the love they deserve and are most capable of FINDING.

The Find-Him Formula On Demand gives you lifetime access to tools, strategies, and mindset shifts to move past the frustration of dating and into the joy of creating a relationship that feels right at your core.

This course is for huge-hearted, empathetic, ambitious women who:

  • Know their worth but feel stuck in a cycle of attracting the wrong guys—or no guys at all.
  • Secretly fear it’s “too late” for them or that all the good ones are taken.
  • Want to date with intention, clarity, and confidence instead of struggling with swipe fatigue or wishful thinking.

If you’re ready to stop waiting and take ownership of your love-life, this is for you.

ALL ABOUT

THE FIND-HIM FORMULA

What you'll learn

  • Move past the dread of dating and shift toward the dream of finding him.
  • Gain clarity on who you truly want, so you can attract a match aligned with your core values.
  • Let go of insecurities about being “too much” or “not enough.”
  • Spot red flags early and sniff out the duds who seem great but clearly aren’t.
  • Set boundaries that make you feel empowered and respected while you date.
  • Overcome fears of getting hurt again and stop sabotaging quality connections.
  • Feel grounded and confident when you really like someone and start to freak out!
  • Create a dating app profile that stands out amidst a sea of generic ones.
  • Navigate the early stages of dating with dignity, confidence, and joy.

 

Are You Ready to Find Him?

 

It’s time to stop waiting, wondering, and overthinking. Love isn’t a fairy tale—it’s something you can create when you align your mindset, energy, and actions. This course shows you how.

What does The Find-Him Formula On Demand entail?

1. Introduction Section - What You Need To Succeed

Before you can fully heal from heartbreak, you need the right tools to set you up for success. The 11 videos in this module are designed to help you approach your healing & transformation journey in the Stop Wanting Him Back module AND the bonus Fall In Love With You module.

  • You’ll learn:

    • How to get the most out of this experience—so you don’t just consume information but actually implement real, lasting change.
    • The biggest mindset shifts you need to stop repeating old patterns and finally start making progress.
    • Two main thought tools you'll use throughout the course to help you diffuse the excruciating stories you have about him, yourself, and the two of you as a couple, so you no longer ruminate over what more likely isn't true than is.  For example, "He doesn't want me."
    • How to emotionally prepare for this process—so when the inevitable resistance, self-doubt, or nostalgia creeps in, you’ll know exactly how to handle it.

    Healing from heartbreak isn’t just about moving on from HIM--even though, yes that's why you're here!  But this is also about reclaiming your power in not just your love-life but your WHOLE life. The What You Need To Succeed module makes sure you step into this heartbreak journey feeling clear, supported, and motivated to change everything for the better.

2. Find Someone Better Section

I designed this section to support you in calling in a deeply aligned, emotionally available partner without sacrificing who you are or settling for less than you deserve. If you’re ready to date with intention, discernment, and confidence, this part of the course guides you through the emotional and strategic shifts needed to attract the right person. 

Rather than giving you generic dating tips, these 21 videos walk you through a powerful inner and outer transformation - helping you clear what’s blocking love while equipping you with tools to date smarter and more consciously.

You’ll explore:

  • How to stop attracting emotionally unavailable men and call in a truly available partner.

  • The deep fear of getting hurt again - and how to move through it gently but effectively.

  • The woman you need to become to be a match for the love you want.

  • How to create a dating app profile that’s authentic, confident, and magnetic (without looking desperate).

  • Tools to tap into belief and possibility when it feels like he doesn’t exist.

  • Dating app resistance: why it’s there, and how to navigate it without burnout.

  • How your future self would approach dating - and how to access that version of you now.

  • The biological clock fear: how to work with it instead of letting it lead.

  • The art of evaluating dates, swiping intentionally, and pacing the connection as it deepens.

  • Managing the vulnerability of liking someone new and discerning early red flags.


The Find Someone Better section will feel that much more inviting, doable, and FUN thanks to all the healing work you'll have done on both past relationships and the relationship with yourself, in the previous sections!  

3. Step-by-Step Bonus Dating Guide

This bonus section was born from witnessing my clients navigate the real-world dating landscape after doing the internal work in the Find Someone Better section. What I saw were smart, self-aware women still getting tripped up by the nuance of early-stage dating—not because they weren’t doing the work, but because the external process can feel confusing, vulnerable, and full of mixed signals.

So, I created this clear, grounded, and supportive guide to walk you through the external “how-to's” of modern dating - while balancing high standards with a strong dose of realism when it comes to recognizing that yes, you deserve to be treated like a queen but also don't know him well enough for the full red carpet to be fully rolled out just yet.

Inside, you’ll get:

  • Clear etiquette + expectations for the moment you match (how to show up without over-functioning or shrinking).

  • Step-by-step guidance for dates 1 and 2: what to expect, how to pace, and how to stay grounded in yourself.

  • What shifts on date 3, and how to start tuning into emotional availability without jumping the gun.

  • A breakdown of dates 4, 5, and 6: how to assess consistency, communication, and compatibility, while upleveling an appropriate amount of higher expectations.

  • A full video on exclusivity: when and how to bring it up, what to look for before you do, and how to handle it with maturity, grace, and confidence.

This section was made to calm your nervous system, help you stay true to yourself, and give you the structure to move through early dating with clarity and self-empowerment—even when you really like him and it’s tempting to abandon yourself again.

What's included

  • Lifetime Access: Watch the 39 videos on your own schedule, anytime, anywhere.
  • Proven Tools and Strategies: Everything you need to date with intention and confidence.
  • Step-by-Step Guidance: No fluff, no guesswork—just a clear roadmap to finding the right person.

Why work with Claire Conlan (Byrne)?

Claire Conlan (Byrne), AKA, Claire the Heartbreak Coach, is a no-BS heartbreak and finding-love coach who has helped countless women stop settling for less and finally meet their person. Known for her direct, compassionate, and humorous approach, Claire combines mindset work, her killer intuition, practical strategies, and heartfelt support to transform her clients’ love lives.

Claire took what she learned from her tireless efforts to heal her most debilitating heartbreak & find the love of her life, and turned it into a simple process that now helps women stop wanting Mr./Ms. Wrong back, and find someone better!

She was dubbed the resident Heartbreak Coach for Kourtney Kardashian’s lifestyle site, POOSH, where she has written over 60 articles on heartbreak, dating and relationships. Other publications she's written for include Men’s Health, Brit + Co, & Medium. Claire was also featured in Ireland's national newspaper, The Irish Independent, as well as Cosmopolitan UK.

Claire has also been a recurring guest on Bachelor Nation/DWTS winner, Kaitlyn Bristowe's Off The Vine podcast, as well as guested on Drybar Founder Alli Webb's Raising the Bar, The Liz Moody Podcast, and Bachelor Nation's Ashley Haibon's I Don't Get It. She was also interviewed by The View's Sara Haines on her IG live series.

Finally, you can check out Claire's own podcast, Stop Wanting Him Back & Find Someone Better on all major platforms.

"I can’t even describe how important Claire’s work is. Exactly one year ago, I decided to buy her course. I spent time dating myself, falling in love with my life as a single 33-year-old, and then I put myself out there again—following every single detail of her course (to a crazy level 😆).
And BOOM! 💥 In less than two months, I found the man and relationship of my dreams.

We’re six months in now, and it’s everything I wrote down in my Belief Man Plan… I know this wasn’t a coincidence—my energy was different.

I truly believed I was going to find him!

Honestly, I told myself that if her course wasn’t enough, I’d find the money to work with Claire directly. But her course alone changed my life.”

Giuliana

"A couple of years back I got serious about finding love after many failed relationships. I decided to finally get out of my own way and listen to an expert with a proven track record. To say Claire’s course did the trick is an understatement. Within one month of diligently following her ‘find someone better’ process, I met an incredible guy, who I'm now married to, and I’m so thankful to have these tools to come back to when I need support on my personal journey.

Thank you, Claire, I couldn’t have done it without you!"

 
Jamie

"Prior to buying your course, I did EVERYTHING to try to heal over a 9-year relationship...

I moved, traveled, (literally the Amazon, Antarctica) changed jobs, did therapy, dated messily, prayed, got an RV and traveled again, & MOVED again! Everything.

After hemming and hawing about working with you 1:1, when your course came out I couldn't hesitate any longer. Then 4 months into working your course, I met the love of my life at 35 years old. He took my mom ring shopping!

He is my dreamboat. We have this amazing healing dynamic with each other. Claire, you taught me how to get over heartbreak, raise myself up, and find love... And I know that if I ever have to heal again, I can."

 
Dana

Are you ready to show up for your love-life in the same way you’re ready for the right guy to show up for YOU?

 

It’s time to stop waiting, wondering, and willy-nillying when it comes to making what you really want to have happen, HAPPEN:

 

Find true love. 

Are you ready to show up for your love-life in the same way you’re ready for the right guy to show up for YOU?

 

It’s time to stop waiting, wondering, and willy-nillying when it comes to making what you really want to have happen, HAPPEN:

 

Find true love. 

Don’t miss this opportunity to invest in your love-life and finally find your person.

The Find-Him Formula On Demand

$297

Pay-In Full*

  • 3 Module Course
  • 39 videos
  • Downloadable worksheets
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