sick of the dwelling, longing, clinging, aching, and obsessing over one too many Mr. Wrongs?

you’ve come to the right place.

What People Are Saying

"Claire has helped me to heal the greatest heartbreak of my life with practical tools that I now use every day. With a mix of pure grace, effervescent humor, and unparalleled intuition, Claire breaks through the bullshit — mine and others — to help me discover what I need to move forward.”

— Liz W.

"Claire is kind, warm, open, intuitive and sharp to the point that I think she may actually be psychic. She will teach you how to manage your thoughts, AND teach you how to plow through them in a different direction, in order to heal your heart."

— Rachel O.

"[Claire] was a lifeline and a partner to guide me to end the agony of this man’s breadcrumbing, and start moving forward to heal. Even just her language to understand my feelings is helpful for me to gain necessary perspective, which feels like a light in the darkness.”

— Anonymous

You’ve pretty much got it all:


A job you’re proud of and worked your ass off for, a home you love, a pretty balanced, healthy lifestyle (always leaving room to indulge of course) the BEST friends a girl could ask for, and perhaps certain family members drive you crazy, but you wouldn’t trade them for the world.

But there’s this onnnne area you juuust can’t seem to get a grasp on:

YOUR LOVE-LIFE.

You’re sick of the dwelling, longing, clinging, aching, and obsessing over one too many Mr. Wrongs.

Your brain KNOWS these guys are bad news, but you just can’t seem to stop attracting them, despite how differently you think you’re showing up, leading you to sometimes entertain the possibility of being alone forever.

After all, when you’re NOT in partnership with some man-child, your life tends to be a little more easeful and a little less dramatic.

You’ve done therapy and it was great, but you feel the need for something “more,” and you’re not really sure what that looks like…

All you know is that your life would be so SO much better, sharing it with not just anyone but... THE ONE.

The one who makes you weak in the knees, makes you pee your pants dying laughing, who showers you with affection, and is loyal, committed, EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE and never gives you a shadow of a doubt that you are his everything, and he is yours.

(Not in a codependent-y kinda way!)

Well. You’ve come to the right place.

INTRODUCING MY 3-MONTH 1:1 COACHING PROGRAM

WHAT IT INCLUDES

Over the 3 months together we’ll meet 12 times for 1-hour sessions to be completed within 3 months.

ZOOM SESSIONS

I also offer text support during PST business hours. If you’re overseas, we’ll arrange a schedule that works for both of us.

TEXT SUPPORT

I'm Claire Conlan

AKA, Claire the Heartbreak Coach, and it took me years of tireless efforts to heal my most debilitating heartbreak, find the love of my life, and then turned both into simple processes that have now helped hundreds of women stop wanting Mr. Wrong back and find someone better!

I was dubbed the resident Heartbreak Coach for Kourtney Kardashian’s lifestyle site, POOSH, where I have written over 60 articles on heartbreak, dating and relationships. Other publications I've written for include Men’s Health, Brit + Co, & Medium. I was also featured in Ireland's national newspaper, The Irish Independent, and Cosmopolitan UK.

I was a recurring guest on Bachelor Nation/DWTS winner, Kaitlyn Bristowe's Off The Vine podcast, and guested on Drybar Founder Alli Webb's Raising the Bar, The Liz Moody Podcast, Arielle Lorre's Well, and Bachelor Nation's Ashley Haibon's I Don't Get It. Additionally, I was interviewed by The View's Sara Haines on her IG live series.

You can check out my own podcast, Stop Wanting Him Back & Find Someone Better, available on all major platforms.

This section walks you through what to expect — from the application process, to what our three months together look like, to how to know whether this coaching container is the right fit for you. Each dropdown below gives you a transparent, detailed look at the journey so you can make an informed, aligned decision.

HOW DOES THE 1:1 COACHING EXPERIENCE WORK?

  • Every 1:1 coaching journey is different!

    Over the course of 3 months we will meet 12 times for 1 hour Zoom sessions.

    You may come to me thinking that you're ready for love, but after a couple of sessions I might ask you to hit pause on dating and clean up some blind spots about your relationship with men (insert whatever gender pronoun applies to you), your general crappy thoughts on dating, or perhaps your relationship with yourself.

    Here's the formal/technical trajectory of what working on your love-life with me looks like:

    • Cut Contact

    • Let Your Heart Break

    • Get Closure

    • Fall in Love with You

    • Find Someone Better

     I tend to slow my clients down if they want to jump from healing heartbreak to finding love because I'm a huge proponent of cleaning up your relationship with yourself after you've endured a significant heartbreak.

    This "fall in love with you" work will be different for everyone.

    For me personally, it entailed shedding toxic friendships, building a business I was passionate about (yes this one!), healing my relationship with my body, as well as my relationship with alcohol.

    Our zoom sessions could focus on mindset work, breathwork, nervous system balancing work, discussing action steps and how you're going to implement them, and/or body work, based off of what YOU are bringing to the table.

    Once you're good and ready to date, we will intentionally swipe on the apps together during our sessions, so that I can help you enjoy the process and drown out the obvious noise dating apps bring up for a majority of people.

    There is no specific agenda on my end, session to session.

    Yes, there is an end goal of healing your heartbreak and/or finding love, but an integral part of the work is me meeting you where you're at every time we meet, which doesn't mean you'll coast through the sessions but instead of forcing you to go on a dating app that puts you into a complete spiral, we're going to slow down and look intimately at the spiral and get to the root of it.

    Finally, as you already know, life loves to throw curveballs in the midst of our big plans, which is why I love this 3-month commitment. 

    Our work isn't just about healing your heart and/or finding love.

    It's about how you navigate the disruptions, inconveniences, and surprises along the way-- job loss, a sick family member, work overwhelm, or a difficult baby daddy who won't adhere to custody arrangements... to name a few.

  • You know that the change starts with you, but perhaps feel stumped on what to focus on and are experiencing some resistance staying consistent with implementing new habits with regards to your dating life.

    I also want you to be ready to put in time IN BETWEEN our sessions to do the work I ask you to do.

    At least 20 mins a day, 5 days a week.

    I'm looking for people who are really committed to making a massive change to their relationships with romantic relationships, who ready to claim what they MOST want and love!

    My methods are tested with massive client success... I was invited to three client's weddings in 2025!

    And here's a message a new client sent me after our 2nd session together...

    "I am so grateful for our time yesterday, you cracked something open in me that l can already see working. And I cannot wait to tell you about it. So even though we thought we might have done "x,y,z" yesterday, I have a feeling that today is going to unfold to the first day of my healing journey and my heart is truly starting to open.

    I cannot thank you enough. I cannot wait to see where we get by session 12. This was only session 2 and the impact you/we have already made is life changing."

  • Step 1: Submit your application
    Start by completing the 1:1 coaching application with thoughtful, well‑considered answers. I’m not looking for one‑word responses, but you also don’t need to write an essay - just honest reflections that help us understand where you are and what you’re seeking.

    Step 2: Personal review
    Every application is reviewed personally to assess readiness, alignment, and whether this container is the right fit for you. By applying, you’re confirming that you have the time, space, and energy to show up fully - both for the calls and for the work that happens between sessions.

    Step 3: Consultation invitation
    If Claire believes you’re a strong fit to move forward, you’ll be contacted to schedule a consultation call. This call is where you and Claire explore whether working together is the right next step, and if it is, you’ll discuss scheduling and logistics. Applications are time‑sensitive, so if your application moves forward, you should be prepared to schedule this Zoom consultation within the same week you apply.

    A note on timing and reapplying
    If you don’t hear from us immediately, it doesn’t mean anything is wrong - timing, capacity, and alignment all matter in this process. If you decide not to move forward before the consultation call, or if you and Claire determine it’s not the right fit at this time, you’re welcome to reapply six months after your original application date.

MORE CLIENT LOVE

Claire is THE expert on heartbreak, and I firmly believe there is no one better. Anyone who's heartbroken or is needing help manifesting her ideal relationship, look no further. Despite some tough moments I had coming to grips with a true awareness of myself, I always knew I was in the right hands with Claire.

Claire's coaching is priceless. She’s tough, but HILARIOUS, and helped me fall more in love with myself, which in turn, helped me find the best and healthiest relationship I have ever been in.

My results—including my HUSBAND, speak for themselves!"

-April G.

“Claire's coaching provided me with two essential pieces that led to my Mr. Right.  First, she gave me a clear dating process that stopped me from looking at what WASN’T working with men or the apps. Second, she held up the mirror to show me some ugly truths I didn’t want to see including all the crumbs I was settling for. It took a lot of consistency on my part and tough love on Claire’s part, to help me finally break my scarcity mindset with men. 

Now, I’ve met a man who is everything I want and more. Two years later and I’m madly in love and deeply proud of my own growth!  I’ve loved loved loved working with Claire — it’s changed my life.”

Alicia M.

“Through working with Claire, I managed to fix a broken heart I thought I would NEVER heal AND...FIND THE MAN OF MY DREAMS! Her huge heart, empathy, and yes, some tough love I was receptive to, helped me realize I owed it to MYSELF to do better. Claire is compassionate, challenges you, and most importantly, teaches you how to love yourself.

Coaching isn’t easy, but a chance to work with Claire is truly a gift and even though it's hard, we have some great laughs too! The woman I’ve become since our work together, is one I can finally say I am proud of. I learned how to know what I deserve in my BONES, and now have a new-found confidence & independence that helped me make those hard but clear choices, as I navigated my finding-love journey under her guidance.

And I'm now just in awe of my whole life--(she also coached me on my career AND my relationship with money because it's ALL interconnected) and still pinch myself over this dream guy who is like no other man I've dated before, and who I'm now officially engaged to. The work was for sure hard at times, but so so worth it!”

Emily S.

“Claire has helped me to heal the greatest heartbreak of my life with practical tools that I now use every day. With a mix of pure grace, effervescent humor, and unparalleled intuition, Claire breaks through the bullshit — mine and others — to help me discover what I need to move forward. Not only has my 'homework' from our sessions helped me to heal past traumas, it has led me to major breakthroughs in my career, relationships, and well-being. I've already sent my nearest and dearest loved ones her way, and I will continue to do so! I'm so blessed to have Claire as a life coach. If you're ready to invest in real, meaningful, powerful change, call her — right now!”

Liz W.

Claire has helped me to heal the greatest heartbreak of my life with practical tools that I now use every day. With a mix of pure grace, effervescent humor, and unparalleled intuition, Claire breaks through the bullshit — mine and others — to help me discover what I need to move forward.

Not only has my 'homework' from our sessions helped me to heal past traumas, it has led me to major breakthroughs in my career, relationships, and well-being. I've already sent my nearest and dearest loved ones her way, and I will continue to do so! I'm so blessed to have Claire as a life coach.

If you're ready to invest in real, meaningful, powerful change, apply to work with her — right now!

Natalia

Apply to my 3 month 1:1 coaching program
to complete your almost picture-perfect life.

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$6,000

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✔ 3 month commitment

✔ 12x one hour Zoom sessions

✔ Text support

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Please NOTE:  I do ask that you take your time to answer the questions on the application.
I’m not looking for full-on essays, but I want to see that you’ve given us working together some deep thought and care.

  • "Claire is a tough coach and has a way to balance the tough-love approach without judgement. She’ll push you into uncomfortable spaces, but stand right beside you through all of the vulnerability and discomfort in your growth. Through my work with Claire, I came to fully understand I had to learn the process of accepting and loving ALL parts of myself. I knew that intellectually loving myself was important, but ACTUALLY behaving in ways that were self-compassionate, forgiving, and accepting was the work for me. Near the end of my coaching journey with Claire is when I met my now boyfriend, and It’s the healthiest, most conscious relationship of my life. The difference between how I show up in this relationship versus past relationships is that I now know no matter what the future has in store for me and/or us, that I will always be ok."

    Christina R.

  • "After our coaching was done I told myself that, when the day comes, Claire will be in the group of people I have to reach out to before announcing my engagement on social media. With that being said… IM ENGAGED!! AHH! I’d say that there must be something in the air, but it’s obviously just proof that this shit works. Our coaching was an essential part in not only getting over a terrible heartbreak, but also finding new love with a great guy AND keeping it. Long ago you asked me how I wanted to feel in a relationship with my future dream guy… well, I can finally say that I feel blissfully happy, I feel oh so very loved, and I feel so much freaking peace. There are no words that can truly describe the impact our coaching has had, so instead I’ll say that you will always have a special place in my heart."

    Emily R.

  • "Simply put, Claire taught me how to trust myself again. With grace and compassion, she walked with me through the deepest heartache and disappointment of my life, while holding a mirror to the parts of me that needed love (sometimes tough love!). Together we built a version of myself that I’d never seen before – one who knew what she wanted in life AND started to actually believe that she could get it. I went from healing my heart in 2021, to living my brightest, fullest life in 2022, to falling in love with my person, my now fiancé, in 2023. It’s a story I never thought I’d get to write for myself, and I owe so much of it to Claire’s love and dedication as a coach, and the space she held for me to learn to trust myself. I am stronger, happier, and more fulfilled because of Claire’s work. She is a true gem."

    Anonymous