When The Work Isn't Working

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Heartbreak Podcast - When The Work Isn't Working

I really wanted to make an episode about this because I make a guarantee to all my clients that come to me, that they will get the results they are looking for if they do the work. I am able to make this guarantee because I know that it works and that your thoughts create your results. 

Two years ago I was living in a crappy house with a roommate so I could keep expenses low and invest in coaching. I knew, even then, before I had created the coaching career that I have now, and the ideal relationship that I’m in now, that the work, works. As a result, I attracted the up-leveled man, and I up-leveled my finances and my life overall. I created that. I committed to doing the work. I am a product of the processes I put in place, so I know that if you invest your time and become an observer of your thoughts, you can create your results too. 

Topics in this episode

• Your behaviors are a mirror image of how you feel about yourself

• The fear that the other shoe is going to drop

• Why isn’t this working?

• Why haven’t I found the love of my life? 

• Why am I financially struggling? 

• “The work not working” is just a thought. When you believe that it’s not working, guess what your result is going to be

• What to do when old stories come up  

• How to tell that the work is working

Resources

• Brooke Castillo podcast, The Lifecoach School: https://thelifecoachschool.com/podcasts/

• Gay Hendricks, The Big Leap: https://www.amazon.com/Big-Leap-Conquer-Hidden-Level/dp/0061735361

• EFT Practitioner, Lena George: https://www.unplug.com/teachers-new/lena-george

• My heartbreak story: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2019/4/1/my-heartbreak-story

• Heartbreak in Your Ideal Relationship: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2020/6/14/heartbreak-in-your-ideal-relationship

• Interview with Ashley Graber: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2019/9/23/claire-interviews-her-past-therapist-ashley-graber

• It’s Not Your Fault: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2020/7/20/its-not-your-fault

• How Committed Are You? https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2020/7/6/how-committed-are-you

• Stacey Boehman: https://staceyboehman.com/

• Danielle Savory: https://daniellesavory.com/

PLEASE NOTE: Claire refers to her exes and the listener’s ex as a “he,” based on her own personal experience as a heterosexual female, but this work can be applied to ANYONE going through heartbreak. ALL genders and sexual orientations are encouraged to listen and apply Claire’s tools into their own lives!

Editing and show notes by Roth Media