Why SHE Has Love & I Don't

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Heartbreak Podcast - Why SHE Has Love & I Don't


For some people, it just looks like life comes easy to them. Maybe they are successful in their career, or they have a great social life, or maybe they have an amazing loving family. This is something a client brought to me recently after watching the Netflix documentary about Harry and Meghan. If you haven’t watched it yet, at one point, Meghan shares that she decided to take time off, travel in Europe, and not worry about dating at all. She just wanted to be free and detached. But lo and behold, a literal prince was dropped in her lap when she was set up with Harry by a mutual friend, and the rest is history. So my client came to me and asked me “Why does she have love, and I don’t?” 

Let me just say, I get it. When you’re doing the work, you’re healing your heart, you’re out there swiping, you’re dating with intention, it can be frustrating when you see it come so easily to others. Let’s talk about how we can reframe this so that instead of spending your energy wanting what someone else has, instead, you can focus on you and creating the love you desire. In this episode, I have a question for you that I want you to wake up asking yourself, every day. Let’s make this the year when you’re thinking “Let’s make 2023, all about me”.

Topics In This Episode

  • “It’s not fair” 

  • What’s happening for her has nothing to do with you 

  • Carving out time and energy on others when it should be focused on you

  • Do not wait to be happy

  • Being detached from finding your person

  • Not just accepting your life, but embracing it

  • You get to be the heroine of your love life, right now 


This work is very nuanced. So if you want me to look at your specific situation and get coached on how to heal your heart, fall in love with yourself, and find someone better, I invite you to apply for my one-year group coaching program, Stop Wanting Him Back and Find Someone Better. I now offer my group coaching program in six- and twelve-month options and have a payment plan available. If I was able to transform my life with this work, then I can coach you to get the results of healing your heart too. To learn more, visit my website at: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/

PLEASE NOTE: Claire refers to her exes and the listener’s ex as a “he,” based on her own personal experience as a heterosexual female, but this work can be applied to ANYONE going through heartbreak. ALL genders and sexual orientations are encouraged to listen and apply Claire’s tools into their own lives!

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