Writing Him Off Too Soon

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Heartbreak Podcast - Writing Him Off Too Soon


I love to see all of the wins and healing my clients are creating. They are doing amazing at healing their hearts, stepping into new relationships with themselves, and some are ready and are putting themselves out there in order to find someone better. And now I’m seeing that a few of my clients are so clear on what they will and will not tolerate that they are ready to jump ship over things that I believe are relatively small. Let’s take a look and how to pay attention to things you do or don’t like while also not writing him off too soon. 

In this episode, I share with you 7 examples of what I hear my clients say that make them want to write someone off when I believe they should give him a chance. I also share with you some examples from my dating history of when I was a bit more flexible with my likes and dislikes with a partner. And I even discuss some of the things with dating Larry where someone else may have written him off or had a moment of pause, but why they didn’t stop me. And because they didn’t, I now get to live in the result of living in my ideal relationship. 

If these are the kinds of epic results you are looking for, and you’re really interested in next-level fine-tuned coaching on you individually, I invite you to purchase my course, Stop Wanting Him Back and Find Someone Better, or apply for my one year group-coaching program of the same title of this podcast and course. Coaching is all about looking at our thoughts and investigating our actions so that we can create what it is we desire. To learn more and apply, visit my website, https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/

Topics In This Episode

  • It’s ok to have some hard and fast rules. It’s just all about getting clear on your rules and your reasons why

  • When you use your rules against yourself

  • Are you waiting for him to show up? Why?

  • What you’re making it mean might not be the reality of the situation 

  • Staying open, even if it doesn’t feel like a perfect fit 

  • Letting go of societal pressures and what you think your relationship should look like



PLEASE NOTE: Claire refers to her exes and the listener’s ex as a “he,” based on her own personal experience as a heterosexual female, but this work can be applied to ANYONE going through heartbreak. ALL genders and sexual orientations are encouraged to listen and apply Claire’s tools into their own lives!

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