When He Wants Space

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Heartbreak Podcast - When He Wants Space

There are so many times in my past when I was told that I was just too much for someone, particularly in my dating relationships. I have an anxious-attachment style, and my love language is definitely quality time. When I’m with someone, I just want to be with them! But inevitably, it would be too much for whoever I was dating, and they would tell me that they needed space from me, leading me to feel shameful about my needs and needing to spend time with them. 

I know that I am not the only one who has felt this before because I have heard this same thing from my clients who are struggling with trying not to be “too much”. If you have an anxious-attachment style or your love language is quality time, or even a quantity of time, this episode is definitely for you. Let’s take a look at those moments when they tell you that they need space, what you’re making it mean, and how to get what you need from the person that you are dating.

My love, you are worth getting everything that you want from the relationship that you are in. If you are falling in love with Mr. Unavailable or are struggling with asking for what you need, then I highly encourage you to apply for my one-year group coaching program, Stop Wanting Him Back and Find Someone Better. In my program, we work together and I help women create the results of healing their hearts, falling in love with themselves, and finding someone better. There’s so much magic happening there with like-minded women just like you. To learn more and apply, visit my website, https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/

Topics In This Episode

• Negotiables versus nonnegotiables in your love life

• Am I being needy?

• Owning your love language and attachment style

• Letting someone else’s opinion about your needs influence your thoughts about your needs

• Old traumas showing up, even in your ideal relationship

• What it looks like when someone is unavailable

• Your ideal person wants what you want 

PLEASE NOTE: Claire refers to her exes and the listener’s ex as a “he,” based on her own personal experience as a heterosexual female, but this work can be applied to ANYONE going through heartbreak. ALL genders and sexual orientations are encouraged to listen and apply Claire’s tools into their own lives!

Editing and show notes by Roth Media