The Lies We Tell Ourselves When Dating

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Heartbreak Podcast - The Lies We Tell Ourselves When Dating


So you’ve healed your heart, fallen in love with you, and you are out there on the dating scene to find your Mr. or Ms. Right. But are you actually ready to find that love? Or, are you telling yourself little white lies about your dating life which might actually be holding you back from finding your person? Let’s take a look at six stories you may be telling yourself which might seem like no big deal, when in fact, they are keeping you in the suffering and from finding love. If you missed last week’s episode, The Lies We Tell Ourselves In Heartbreak, be sure to give that a listen if you are still in your heartbreak and ways you may be holding yourself back.

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Topics In This Episode

  • The 3 steps for stopping wanting him back

  • Living in denial is a way of avoiding pain

  • Is he actually busy? Or is he just not making time for you?

  • Going too fast, too soon

  • Allowing yourself to not be ok when things don’t work out 

  • Listen when someone tells you who they are, and what they’re looking for 

  • Can you ignore someones texts?

  • Saying no after you’ve said yes


PLEASE NOTE: Claire refers to her exes and the listener’s ex as a “he,” based on her own personal experience as a heterosexual female, but this work can be applied to ANYONE going through heartbreak. ALL genders and sexual orientations are encouraged to listen and apply Claire’s tools into their own lives!

Editing and show notes by Roth Media


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