When Mean Guys Win

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Heartbreak Podcast - When Mean Guys Win


Did you catch that? Did you see the two thoughts in the title of this episode? There are two thoughts there: one, that there are “mean guys”, and two, this idea of “winning”. This episode is inspired by something I experienced this week and by the conversations I’ve had with clients. Oftentimes, after a relationship, we may be the ones to be broken hearted or feeling pain, and then we see our exes reaching new levels of success. This can leave you feeling hurt and like there’s nothing good happening for you, especially in the depths of your heartbreak. Let’s take a look at what I believe is the new thought that you should be striving for, and how you can continue to use moments like these in your own journey of healing your heart and finding someone better. 

If this sounds familiar, and you are wanting to learn how to do the thought work and use the tools I teach in order to stop wanting him back, fall in love with you, and find someone better, then I invite you to join my one-year group coaching program, Stop Wanting Him Back and Find Someone Better. Or, for a limited time, I am again offering my 60-video course, with the same title as this podcast and as my group coaching program. With this course, you get lifetime access to the videos. To learn more, or if you have any questions, go to my website https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/ 

Topics In This Episode

  • How are you defining “winning”?

  • When you’re making his choices mean something about you 

  • This thought puts you in the position of the “loser”

  • Forgiveness and setting yourself free 

  • The work is never done

  • What could you be thinking about and focusing on if it wasn’t about him and his “winning”?

  • Enjoying the benefits of creating a better you

  • Decide what winning means for you, and go create those results 



PLEASE NOTE: Claire refers to her exes and the listener’s ex as a “he,” based on her own personal experience as a heterosexual female, but this work can be applied to ANYONE going through heartbreak. ALL genders and sexual orientations are encouraged to listen and apply Claire’s tools into their own lives!


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