The #1 Most Important Dating Tip

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Heartbreak Podcast - The #1 Most Important Dating Tip


Are you on the edge of your seat to find out my #1 most important dating tip? Here it is. I’ve refined all my coaching and guidelines down to one thing, my number 1 most important dating tip. If you’ve listened to this podcast or have worked with me before, you know that I have created a 5-step process for finding someone better. I also have rules and guidelines I create for my clients so that I can help them see their own blindspots and be able to heal their hearts and find their person. So here it is, my number 1 dating tip, my loves: be a human.

In this episode, I share three very specific examples from clients who are actively dating in order to find their person, but they’ve recently really gotten in their head and getting in their own way. It’s common for me to see clients doing the work who are really wanting to make sure they are following the rules and doing the “right thing”. But sometimes, this worry about the rules and making a wrong move is actually preventing them from creating results! So let’s talk about what it looks like to trust yourself and be a human.

Again, I want to be very clear that the coaching I shared with these clients in this episode was very specific to them and to their situation. If you want me to take a look at what is going on with you and to get your heart healed,  I want to invite you to join my group coaching program by the same title as this podcast, Stop Wanting Him Back and Find Someone Better. In my program, I coach all women, it doesn’t matter your age, race, religion, etc. This program is for all women looking to heal their hearts, fall in love with themselves, and then prepare to get back out there and find their person. I know you can do it because, not only have I done this work myself and found my Mr. Right, but I’ve also helped so many other women be able to do the same. To learn more and apply, visit my website at

Topics In This Episode:

  • Being a tough-love coach

  • 100% Technical. 100% Organic. 100% Fuck it.

  • Profiles don’t create your person, but they are an incredible tool.

  • Asking yourself what is it that you truly want, and what is the worst that can happen?

  • Sitting with the unknown



We are entering the holiday season, and this year I believe you  should treat yourself to a healed heart and the love of your life. My course, Stop Wanting Him Back and Find Someone Better, is coming back for the month of December 2022, and now includes 20 new videos. Plus, there’s a whole bonus dating guide, where I guide you through from the moment you match on the apps, all the way through to when you decide to make things exclusive. There will also be 5 live group-coaching calls in the month of February. So to learn more, be sure to go to


PLEASE NOTE: Claire refers to her exes and the listener’s ex as a “he,” based on her own personal experience as a heterosexual female, but this work can be applied to ANYONE going through heartbreak. ALL genders and sexual orientations are encouraged to listen and apply Claire’s tools into their own lives!

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