You Didn't Waste Your Time On Him

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Heartbreak Podcast - You Didn't Waste Your Time On Him


I know that, for women especially, there is this pressure to settle down and start a family, and that pressure may grow the older you get. I get it! I used to face this same struggle in my dating life when it wasn’t working out, and I just hadn’t found my person yet. And the longer you spend in your dating life without your Mr. or Ms. Right, it may be easy to think about “wasted time” that you spent with the wrong person. I’m going to let you know right off the bat that wasted time is just a thought. The time that you spent in the relationships you were in is a completely neutral circumstance.

I believe that the time you spent in previous relationships, or time you spent healing your heart was definitely not wasted. You are exactly where you need to be in order to find your person. In this episode, I dig into those reasons you may feel like you wasted your time so that we can clean up that drama and that urgency, in order to call love in. Let’s also look at examples of where I believe that you may be delaying finding your person and how you can move through that so you can find the love of your life. 

If you are struggling with cleaning up your past or making difficult decisions in order to call love in, with your person, I invite you to join my one-year group coaching program, Stop Wanting Him Back and Find Someone Better. Or, for a limited time, I am again offering my 60-video course, with the same title as this podcast and as my group coaching program. With this course, you get lifetime access to the videos, and will also be able to join me for 5 live group coaching calls the first week of February 2022. This is my most affordable and accessible offering. If you have any questions, please reach out to [email protected]

Topics In This Episode:

  • You aren’t the right fit for everyone that you’ll date - and you’re not supposed to be 

  • Coming to coaching with elevated thinking

  • Preparing yourself for future success in your dating life by cleaning up your past

  • The time you spent in a relationship is a neutral circumstance 

  • Living in regret over something that you can’t change keeps you stuck

  • Looking at what you are in control of and what you can change

  • Becoming the best version of yourself in order to call love in

  • Getting clear on future you in your ideal relationship

  • When your dreams aren’t compatible with theirs


PLEASE NOTE: Claire refers to her exes and the listener’s ex as a “he,” based on her own personal experience as a heterosexual female, but this work can be applied to ANYONE going through heartbreak. ALL genders and sexual orientations are encouraged to listen and apply Claire’s tools into their own lives!

Editing and show notes by Roth Media


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