When You Don't Believe You'll Find Him

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Heartbreak Podcast - When You Don't Believe You'll Find Him


When you have experienced heart break, it can be tricky to believe that you will find love and that your Mr. or Ms. Right is out there. I have heard from people who tell me that they feel like their person is out there, but there is a distinct difference in having those thoughts, and really believing them. And not only that, but also having that belief when you don’t have any current evidence to support that belief, so that is what I want to share with you today. In this episode, I detail how you know when you have that belief, what happens when that belief may feel unsteady, and the seven steps for get you into belief that your person exists. 

Our brains look for evidence, and they will create limiting beliefs where they are using that evidence from our past to dictate our future. If you are struggling with belief and truly knowing that your person is out there, then I invite you to check out my one-year group coaching program, Stop Wanting Him Back and Find Someone Better. In this program, I coach you through the three results of stopping wanting Mr. or Ms. Wrong Back, falling in love with you, and finding someone better. We do this through three calls a week, plus you have access to “Ask A Coach” where you can write in and get a coached response within 24 hours, as well as access to over over 60 videos of coaching. To learn more and apply, go to https://course.clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/

Topics In This Episode

  • Working through limiting beliefs, and the evidence that I invite my clients to use that will serve them

  • It isn’t a problem that you don’t believe that he exists

  • How to observe and be a compassionate witness of the disbelief to then move through it

  • Looking at your why for wanting to have belief 

  • There’s no such thing as “believing wrong” 

  • Preparing for him to come

  • Belief is not a linear journey

  • Setting boundaries around who you talk about your dating life with 



PLEASE NOTE: Claire refers to her exes and the listener’s ex as a “he,” based on her own personal experience as a heterosexual female, but this work can be applied to ANYONE going through heartbreak. ALL genders and sexual orientations are encouraged to listen and apply Claire’s tools into their own lives!

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